Instant Messaging (IM) or better known as Messaging, and Chat Rooms, utilize the Internet as the backbone for their functionality. These services provide instant communication between two user’s computers either through typing messages, sending files, and or even pictures. These communications appear instantaneously on the recipient's computer once the sender presses “enter” or selects “send.”
It is important to make a distinction between the various types of messaging platforms and possibilities.
1. Messaging programs can be found for both computers and smartphones. Computers require a small program to be downloaded and installed whereas a smartphone user can easily install an app from the manufacturer’s app store. Either way, these programs require a user to log on and use a designated username (screenname / handle etc.) that becomes their identity on the system while in use. This may seem redundant to mention - but it is important to understand this type of messaging utilizes the Internet network for transporting the message.
2. Cell phones (both flip phones and smartphones) can also send text message (SMS = Short Message Service) to other phones with only the use of a phone number. This messaging service is very simple and built into the phone. The phone service provider (Verizon, Sprint, ATT etc.) delivers the message for the user through the cellular network as opposed to the Internet.
3. It is entirely possible, and highly likely, that users will utilize both the phone carrier’s network to send SMS messages, while also using a messaging app to communicate over the phone's Internet (data) connection.
Instant Messaging (IM or IMing) is a service allowing users to send typed messages, pictures, files, and live video to a recipient based on their screen name. This exchange can go back and forth as long as both parties desire. It provides a personal way of communicating with friends and other known contacts and is very popular among teenagers as well as many adults.
In order to use this service a user must download a free program and install it on their computer or an app for their phone or tablet. There are several available with some of the more popular ones being WhatsApp, Facebook Messenger, QQ Mobile, WeChat, Viber, and even Skype. The old days it was Yahoo Messenger, Windows Live Messenger, and AIM (America Online IM). The program handles all the communication and provides a window for the user to type and receive messages.
Many popular social networking sites like www.Facebook.com offer messaging as part of the overall platform it offers customers along with many other options. Additionally, companies like Alphabet (Google), Microsoft, and Yahoo offer membership accounts allowing users to register in exchange for access to web services like e-mail, office programs, document storage, calendar, messaging, and many other resources for free. Once logged into the web site, a user can seamlessly maneuver to all application options. The website also keeps track of user activities in order to provide a personalized experience on return visits; while also learning about their activities for target marketing. There are no verification efforts to make sure a person creating an account is who they say they are. This allows for an anonymity many predators desire when they can pose as a much younger person in order to meet others.
With this multiple service concept in mind, a teenager who registers for a free Yahoo email account will also have access to all the other features. The personal information listed during the initial registration also becomes part of the teen’s online profile for that service. Therefore it is always important to think twice before entering any personal information within online profile registration pages. Keep it all generic.
A “buddy list” or “messenger list” is a small active window inside an IM program listing screen name contacts a user considers a friend. It allows quick communication by clicking the name and typing a message. Indicators also reveal the status of a friend (signed on or not) by placing some type of icon next to the name. It is very common for teenagers to have multiple names in their list. For safety reasons teens should set options in their account to only allow contacts from users on their buddy or messenger list and never allow files to be accepted on their computer to reduce potential virus threats from a friend’s computer.
Chat rooms are similar to Instant Messaging, (IM) but unlike direct one-to-one communication, users log on to a themed based virtual room and communicate with a group of users. Participants interact by sending typed messages that all connected users can read and respond to like a big online get together. There are numerous chat topics to choose from such as: hobbies, television shows, boy bands, sports, politics, health issues, and relationships. Basically if there is an interest, there is probably a chat room available. While watching chat room dialog, users will likely notice most postings are just typed advertisements for other web sites and similar items with very few legitimate conversations taking place. It serves more as a place for users to post their name and wait for someone to invite them to a private Instant Message session.
As mentioned above, many chat rooms are seamless with IM services with regard to certain web sites. Once a user has an account they can travel between both worlds with the click of a mouse. “Yahoo Chat” is one example. While using “Yahoo Instant Message” a user can simply drop down a menu and select “Yahoo Chat” and instantly be presented with a list of available topics and corresponding rooms. Other examples are “AIM Chat” and “Google Hangout.” There are, however, many other chat room web sites that focus on chatting exclusively and are not tied with major search engine web sites.
A chat room window basically combines people who will only know each other based on their profile and registered screen name. If a person decides they want to “go private” with someone in the room, they click that person’s name and ask to send an Instant Message. At that point, both users are simultaneously still in the room while engaging in a private IM session in a new pop up window. Predators use this feature to target users they meet in chat rooms. Additionally, once a predator knows a user’s screen name he or she can directly send Instant Messages to that person by simply opening the IM service, typing in the name and message. Many also send direct requests to be added to the other person’s buddy or contact list.
When using IM and chat rooms it is common to use abbreviations for words or phrases that take too much time to type. This type of abbreviating almost becomes a cryptic language of its own preventing unfamiliar users from understanding what is actually being typed. This puts parents at a disadvantage even if they are watching over their child's shoulder. There are even codes for telling others a parent is watching.
IM Code deciphers can be found by searching the Internet or using the following websites:
These programs record computer keystrokes and operate in the background within the computer device without users knowing. These can be used to see what your children are typing including their passwords. Note... We do not endorse any of the below programs nor do we guarantee that they are legitimate and we are not liable if used. We are only providing a link to their download page for your consideration.
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